the villain and the hero

We often forget that every villain has a story, I think we are so willingly seeing ourselves as the heroes of every story we are a part of but the truth is that we are not. Just like there are three sides to every truth, there's different sides to every story we live. In someone's eyes we might be the hero and in other's we might play the villain without our knowledge and that's okay too. The important part of it is to learn from what you've done to others because every trait that made you a villain has the same possibility of changing as a hero has of losing those traits that make them heroic. One is not better than the other because you will be both at times and you may not even realize it. Never play into the villain that someone sees in you, because at the end of the day you know who you are and what you did and why you did so. You know your reasons and you know that those parts of you might have meant well and make sure as you move forward that you never stop learning from your mistakes, but do not dwell on them because there has never been any learning done in regretting. Make sure that reasons that made you villainous don't conjure the same reaction twice because once is failure to notice, twice is purposely done and a third..well then you might be a villain after all...